~ MUSIC, CREATIVITY, THE INDUSTRY ~
ACCOLADES:
ON THE "RULES" OF CREATING:
* February 20, 2013 · ARE there any 'rules' in creativity'? Believe it or not, there are a few things to consider!!.. 1) Follow the general guidelines of the beat..if you don't it ends up sounding ridiculous..even if you think it's the dopest thing you ever did; 2) Make sure the mix is hot!; 3) Be 'influenced' or 'inspired' by other artists you like, without imitation. Like my music instructors told me in college.."whatever you do, make it your own"; 4) If YOU aren't feeling it, how can you expect US to??; 5) There are no 'rules' in written lyrical expression other than when you perform it, make it sound good for the rest of us..
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ON THE BEAUTY OF CREATING:
* February 20, 2010 · In this beautiful path of ours called 'music', we as artists are an important part of the beauty of creation; it begins when mind and spirit fuses with beat and passion - the end product is the birth of perfection..We need to respect the gifts we have and use them with pride!!
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ON RESPECTING THE GIFT :
* April 21, 2011 · To become a true artist you have to first recognize and accept that you have a gift for it. Second, that the gift is both a curse and a blessing. Third, that you need to treat it with respect, work at it like earning your way up from a whitebelt to a blackbelt in a martial art. You will know then that you have skill and power in your hand..Use it wisely. Use it to do some good. When you get to blackbelt level think of it like this, a lot of people will be rushin at you biggin it..Trying to battle, see what you got..Don't use the energy unless it is with respect and for the good of the art.
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ON STRIVING FOR GREATNESS:
* February 18, 2017 · I don't have to be "the best" at anything because I'm in competition with NObody! I don't need to make a living from my art, nor do I aspire to be rich or a superstar. I have supported those I respect as much if not more than I support myself at times (yea it has been known). I strive to "be great" by my own standards and to continue to grow, be better, know more..and I love sharing with like minded artists and music lovers. I guess all that makes me an anomaly. *shrugs.
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ON STUDYING GREATNESS:
* August 13, 2014 - Random Thoughts..(Thank you to my mentors for enlightening and educating MY mind over the years): The art of rap is a beautiful thing but not everybody has the gift or truly understands how to use the gift if they do have it..IF you have it..STUDY! Study like you never studied in school. Study the masters...Study the history..Study your own presentation..Improve your vocal tone..Your flow..Your understanding of your own basic abilities. This is an art form not a hobby..This is life..Don't just turn up and think you aced it..You disrespect the culture and the art form with that attitude.
* May 2, 2016 · I must agree to disagree with a lot of you "up and coming" rappers and so called music lovers who have no clue what is greatness and what is wackness..I'll never shut my ears to new sounds..Always give newness a chance..but dammn..seriously? The problem is if you are fed shit from birth you will grow up thinking shit taste like chocolate cake..Open your mind..STUDY GREATNESS! My daughter listens to and appreciates all eras as I do. She doesn't get all stubborn and say old music is bullshit! She listens and makes her own mind up. Stop fighting and start opening your ears!!!!
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ON THE BLESSINGS AND CURSES OF BEING AN ARTIST:
* August 17, 2010 · An artist is both blessed and cursed..blessed with the abilities and skills of creativity..cursed that few who are not also artists or creative in some way, can understand the drive, single mindedness and focus behind the creativity that drives us, which means that we usually end up riding solo on our path since soulmates are pretty much extinct.
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DISCUSSION ON "TAKING OVER THE GAME":
* February 24, 2017 · Yea Yea Yea..everybody is about to "take over" this music game..*yawn..Why can't you just hush and contribute to the culture instead of all that flexin and frontin..pah..not interested in hearing you hammering on..and on..and on..just be great and my ears will appreciate you.
Renee Yearwood: There HAS to be "flexin"and showboating because they have to distract you from realizing that what they're putting out isn't that great. Oh and if there's a new "dance" to go with this earthshaking new music, it's a wrap.
Donna H Mofohari: lmao that definitely explains everything! :D
Amin Smith: I'm just an individual wave that's a joyful ride, enough said
I welcome a surfers who can flow with me,
But not to shred...
Donna H Mofohari: True indeed!
Joe Flow: I'm an artist so I think it's completely normal to exude confidence, however I think it's best to put 1000% effort into the music, share it with the world and then be excepting of whatever feedback one receives.
Donna H Mofohari: Amen! 100% agreed.
Richard Jackson : The fact that this follows one of those, "I'm about to drop this heat" posts on my tl makes it extra special.
Donna H Mofohari: haha.. We don't mind too much the promoting and building anticipation..that's how it should be as we know. BUT the quality does need to match the description..right? lol Seriously, you will know maybe even better than i do how often they boast about takeovers and how their work is pure fyre. When you hear this "fyre" your heart just sinks.
Bob Henderson: It's the same reason why Lil yachty and uzie and kodak black Got on radio and said that they were better than biggie or pac .. folks these days have no idol or no one that they look up anymore. There is no such thing as a student of the game no more . And that's why these folks will get crushed . Remy crushing Minaj .Carlos santana exposed Beyonce for what it was worth .see ? What comes around goes around.
Donna H Mofohari: Good points!!!
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ON SHOWING AND PROVING:
* February 2, 2013 · If words can awaken people and bring an awareness or understanding they didn't have before then I will have achieved something. I don't care if you are the roughest, baddest thug from the hardest hood..if you want out and up..YOU HAVE TO PROVE YOURSELF!..and to prove yourself you have to suck it up and listen, pay attention and follow simple directions in order to get ANYWHERE. If folks are trying to help you..let them..don't fight! I people give you directions or requirements, suck up the thugness and use your intelligence..respect for respect..and on that note..MofoHari blows kisses into the wind and hope they stick..peace all..I'm out.
* May 6, 2015 · Do you know how many people claim they are the hardest working artists around? Around what? Around 11pm and work til 2? ...Or until they get too kushd out, whichever comes first? 3/4 of them just like moving their mouth..and not to spit either smh. Less talkin, more proof..
* June 13, 2017 · If you tell them "don't sleep on me" they will roll over and go back to sleep. They've heard all those lines a million times before in a million other voices. Best to let them open one eye at a time on their own. Meanwhile, show and prove...to yourself..keep building..keep growing..become greatness to your own eyes first and share with those who are already aware and alert.
* October 18, 2012 · I will leave you with one thought that has been going thru my mind since I woke up (inspiration for a song)..You must EARN your titles in life...You can't put 'dj', 'grandmaster', 'producer', or any other title in front of your name, or label yourself G.O.A.T. ANYTHING until you have practiced your art/skill..gone out to the public in one way or another and shown them your abilities and let them decide for themselves..You may think you are the greatest genius that ever lived but to someone else your knowledge is highly questionable..STRIVE, SHOW AND PROVE..good morning..we out.
A FACEBOOK RHYMEATHON:
October 28, 2012 · I need a man with an empty space in his diary/A place in his life to give to me/Love with me/Write rhymes and share his soul with me/Willingly/No forcing communication, over medication or spliffary/No in and out like a robbery, that's already been done to me/I want someone to have the heart to stick around deliberately, because he's into me/.. ADD ON IF YOU WANT FOLKS..I'm just rhymin'..can't help myself lol..good morning
Liam Smith: i need a prostitute
Donna H Mofohari: that don't rhyme but let me see..i need a prostitute, that is absolute..give me a hand and i'll shuffle you
Donna H Mofohari: eh
Donna H Mofohari: na
Donna H Mofohari: dnt work lol
Donna H Mofohari: and its not romantical neither
Liam Smith: hahahahaha its true though
Donna H Mofohari: LOL thats not for me that's for you..i better write a disclaimer here
Michael Collingbine: i need a woman who believes in me and weaves her world into mine a paradise of passion intertwined with a heart full of love bursting at the seams a woman with who i can hold tight at night and share my dreams someone to keep me warm when i get cold and who loves me even when im grey and old
Donna H Mofohari: nice Unique i like that :)
Michael Collingbine: you inspire me :)
Donna H Mofohari: thanks!
Michael Collingbine: ok try to continue this...i will keep on looking and keep on searching...even though its painful and my heart is still hurting.....
Michael Alan Robinson: she got me checkin out my fresh b4 i see her! took awhile 2 find her and i aint tryna leave her! its all in black and white like leave it 2 beaver! i move like a quarterback i need to recrive her! and i aint even talkin bout trickin imma treat her! im ventin hyperventilatin need a breather! coke bottle hourglass body got curves! i could make a connection wit thoughts no words!
Donna H Mofohari: love it ..nice..thanks guys!
Murray Northwood: because he's into me and won't degrade me...
Donna H Mofohari: :)) ohoh im beamin like a cheshire cat..imagine that..been waitin for a treat and they kept passin the hat but now rhymers be opening cylinders like arafat..heatin up like madras cooked in chicken fat
Donna H Mofohari: eh lmao
Michael Alan Robinson: whew! nice nice
Donna H Mofohari : haha
Donna H Mofohari: i get in modes and cant help it..guess its gonna be one of those days :/
Michael Alan Robinson: she said she wanna test my weapon da runaway train her brains karrine stephens! yea u talk a gud one yup u da boss! but once u in my world u in da land of da lost! or lost in da land take my hand! we could get it poppin in da sea air or land! da yatch da airplane 4 play in cars! she neva been ot imma take her 2 mars!
Donna H Mofohari: owwww..very nice :) lovin it guys..you are making my day!!!
Donna H Mofohari : havent even had breakfast yet..better go wake up..time for a coffee
Michael Alan Robinson: catch a heart spasm a ear orgasm! da human horror flick da excorsist phantasm
Donna H Mofohari: lmao..hahaha love it
Michael Alan Robinson: watch how i steady drill! lyricks written ta kill! my words leak beyond petroleum oil spill!!! wow i said MY WORDS LEAK BEYOND PETROLEUM OIL SPILL!!! (WOW BP.... OVA DA HEAD)
Donna H Mofohari: u are a rhyme invasion of epic proportions...live births not track abortions..u dont waste shit, dont tolerrate extortion! im at your mercy and honey you scorchin.. im a lyric whore pantin for more, tell the chef i need another portion
Donna H Mofohari: awesome how we went from romantical to see me kill..thats real thats ill thats lyrical
Donna H Mofohari : haha..still havent got that coffee yet..ohmy
Michael Alan Robinson: lol i had mine bout ta get anotha one and anotha L! u nice tho babe sound like a female version of me! ;-)
Donna H Mofohari: :)) thanks im honored..much love
Michael Alan Robinson: aw i feel da same way! its like 2 super heros showin off there powers meeting 4 da first time! lol
Donna H Mofohari: haha na no showin off..just doing what we love
Sheldon L. Butler: Mind connects with bright thoughts reflect,inspect ya deck, keep u fresh like a pair of nikes when I put dat azz in check. Now we can make music and I bang u like a drum, I keep u on beat then I cold get dumb, until it gets numb .get her buzzin like a...See More
Donna H Mofohari: LOL!!!!! owwwwwwww..you goin in..love that :)
Sheldon L. Butler: Chk out my notes if u wanna see what I do. I duz this all day. Luvvvzzzz ya cuzzo!!!
Donna H Mofohari: most definitely will..thank you thank you..i had started thinkin no more ppl shared rhymes on fb but ive been proved wrong.. i might have to come back in for more..everybody giving the mental stimulation today lol..just trying to stabilize this laptop first and *arnie voice ..illll be backkkk..peace peace!!! <3
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ON OLD MASTER POETRY (READ TO ME AT AN EARLY AGE):
* October 28, 2012 · Here's a beautiful poem that my dad used to read for me when I was little from an old withered brown poem book..I am grateful to my dad for giving me a love for rhyme and word flow. This one is from Sam Walter Foss: Deepness..
ON POSITIVITY:
* Nov 26, 2017 · As I look back over all the verses I have written and/or recorded over the years, mixed in with all the sensual/romantic vibe songs are so many positive messages. Messages of support and encouragement that I've leaned on myself in harder times. That need to build, encourage and support those I care about has always been inside. Always been a part of who I am. I have seen and experienced enough negativity in my lifetime, seen so many miserable people (and been one on occasion) that hell..you eventually have to stop and remind yourself.."Hey wait..I actually LIKE feeling happy and positive..I LIKE seeing people smile, pick themselves up and carry on in a better frame of mind".
We must realize that it is by far better to be optimistic and excited to be alive then sad, downcast, lacking in direction, focusless and hopeless. (Someone teased me once about being over positive..(well, at least I ain't neva gonna be syrupy and fakely sweet..at least I hope not! You have my permission to slap me upside my head if I everrr slide down that slippery slope of yuckness lol)..BUT seriously!!! Here's my point..If we observe with our eyes, know with our hearts and understand with our spirits that more positivity is needed in this world, we owe it to ourselves and others to shine that light and peal that bell! LOUD! So yea..why not?? Fellow artists..Let's go..Come on now.. Less of the miserable songs and more of the uplifting, inspiring, encouraging verses. #RandomSaturdayThoughts (may be a duplicate)
DISCUSSION ON GETTING RELIABLE FEEDBACK:
* May 20, 2010 · Artists, producers what are your experiences with getting folks to communicate to you what they hear?..NOT yea yea'ing u with everything you do is extraordinarily wonderful'..but showing they are paying attention, demonstrating support. When technology generated numbers show people are listening, should that be enough? If you drove for more than just that, HOW did you get around the issue to get that personal communication flowing?
Aaron A. Bennett: Well most times i generally know, but I tell people to give me their unbiased opinion and they usually do just that!!!
Donna H Mofohari: thanks!
Anton Ki: Well its tricky, quite a few people have preconceived notions soon as they hear "Oh you record" etc. Beware of shysters, some people have their hands out/in your pocket and will not properly or openly communicate.
Donna H Mofohari: Yea i hear u! good thoughts..thanks!
Donte Fleming: ummmmm tell them creative criticism is good....... & u r tryin to improve on your product.......... ask them if the song sounds complete....... ? if they hear the music & vocals w/ clarity & know your product.................... u know when u got a heater............... it's the little things that can be the diffeence between a song being good or being great........ starting w/ the mixing & mastering!
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ON FEEDBACK:
* October 18, 2015 · No matter what level or how long you have been doing what you do, put pride away and listen to feedback..accept with grace..make improvements or change what you can as long as it doesn't take away from your individual style. People have ears..respect what they hear. #RandomThought
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ON APATHY:
* January 28, 2017 · Back in the day when somebody we knew was dope was about to drop a track, there was always a ripple of anticipation. It was so strong! All up and down, thru every connection you could feel electric pulses of excited energy across the miles between us all. Now...I still feel those butterflies and excitement but when I turn around to tap somebody and share my pleasure, there's nobody there. It's ufcked up. I don't like the apathy of this new world. How do I shake it up? Has it really moved so far beyond appreciating greatness that it truly believes bullshit is excellence and excellence is horrible? Or are humans just in suspended animation? What happened to the fun and excitement? Did you lose it hip hop? Bring it back immediately before you lose your soul..and start paying attention to what's going on around you!
* July 31, 2011 · It has just been proven again..You throw up (on facebook) a controversial but original thought that has nothing to do with your art and people comment you to death..Ypu post a status talking about your latest achievement or your passion, love support of music and you get yawns, blank looks..silence....says it all.
* September 27, 2014 · Isn't it "funny" how you work your heart out doing whatever you do..recording, radio shows, blood sweat and tears building a website for self or others etc and you are like a little kid with excitement wanting to hug everybody and show em what's there for them..and..and....and what? Folks don't seem to gaf about anything that is not about them..directly..personally..or often even if it is for or about them directly, personally.. Like not even the people that you did things FOR appear to gaf (maybe) because they did not do it themselves, by their own hand. It's a crazy world. Sometimes you just want to spread a little goodness and a little joy but folks be like..ufkkdat....Where's the love at? Where's the passion, the excitement..Please god..bring it back to them! Without that life is not complete. I miss that creative passion that used to buzz like an electric wire that sent signals across the globe. I miss everybody pulling together in the same direction..but eh..It's all still in "here" (points to head and heart)..So at least I have it all inside. Nothing is lost and at the very least, the pleasure is still mine for the taking.
* December 23, 2015 · Artists..makes me lmdao every time I see any of you throw out the classic line.."I do this for you"..I guess you haven't learned yet..Nooobody cares!..Trust me..Self sacrifice is just that..Nada mas..You martyr you..Cut it out. Unless you can hold your hand up and say.."My name is ___ and I am addicted to making music", I will not believe a word you say. Do it for you, because you want, need and are driven to. If not you will end up crushed, with ego destroyed and feeling very alone. So like I said..admit it to yourself for yourself and no more self sacrifices or martyrdom. The internet is a collective asshole..It will happily shit you right out without even digesting you. Lol
* January 23, 2014 · Used to be a time years ago that you could post up a rhyme snippet and artists would add on..Now it's like.."oh..ok..whuteva.." #ScrollsPast - One of my people used to say "Just record that ish.." Yup, okay..right as usual. Folks dont want to read it, they MIGHT want to hear it..but..it's just fodder in the wind posting any kind of pearls up to the general public. There's too much food out there, nobody wants to eat.
* November 11, 2014 · I never have and never will keep my mouth shut when it comes to artists and producers that I appreciate..I NEVERRR HAVE..AND..NEVER WILL..I may not tag you, nag the shit out of you, irritate you daily in your inbox etc..but I will knock at your door (metaphorically speaking)..If you are sleeping I will come back..If you are still sleeping I will jump on (or in) your head.
It has been said time and again by many different people that I have an ear for a good beat and good music..and yes, I believe I actually do. So because you are too proud, "busy", high etc etc etc to listen to what I'm telling you the first hundred times I will continue to preach, show, share and PROVE that you need to be working with, listening to or at the very least connecting with and checking out some of the greatness that I hear daily..the apathy era WILL be overcome before I leave this planet...this music apathy era..WILL BE DEFEATED.
* June 22, 2016 · Sometimes when I rave about an artist, producer etc that I hear as having incredible skills ppl have sometimes thought i am angry, or aggressive just because i genuinely do get excited when i hear something good in the increasingly horrible quality that regularly passes my eardrums..I see a sea of dead, expressionless, passive faces and feel like I need to scream, grab shoulders and shake people, whatever it takes to get them to wake up and hear something special..Sad thing is, special to me may well not be recognized by "them" because the quality they are so used to hearing is so under par that they believe it to be everything. So they wave their hands dismissively as in "yea yea i'll go listen..eventually". It literally kills me inside to see it. But I need to accept that this is the US mentality of low esteem for original, high quality music, whereas the UK and the rest of the world respect greatness.
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ON GIVING CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM:
* December 14, 2014 · We need to recognize that just because an artist or style isn't to our individual taste, doesn't mean it's wack. It means that it's not for you..UNLESS what you are disliking is about the skill and technical quality, in which case let the artist know what you hear! Be honest if it's just not your thing too. Don't hate..say something useful!
* May 28, 2013 · Sometimes I'm slightly uncomfortable reviewing/critiquing folks' rap skills. So often I feel like 'why me??!' I am not a rapper, i'm a singer! The problem is I'm cursed that, now that my ear KNOWS quality..KNOWS what it hungers for, KNOWS the difference between a good and so-so flow, I can't bear to sit here and pretend something is awesome when it quite obviously is not....and even more disheartening is that others, i.e. those who HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO REPRESENT THEIR CULTURE AND MUSIC..(yes you)..are sitting there smh'ing at what they hear, muttering and complaining, but taking no direct action..So please qualified people..take this burden out of my hands and speak to them one on one..skilled rapper to not so skilled rapper..YOU tell em..and tell them how they can improve (or if they can)..Stop the dis-ease please.
* July 10, 2013 · I think we need to have a trap door system to get rid of bad rappers..everybody seems to be too scared to tell these people they suck, so if you have a button you can hide behind maybe we can tighten things up..smh..better yet, like I've said a million times before, you skilled rappers need to be talking up with authority to these people who are all full of their 'i'm dope, i'm the greatest rapper of all time' ish when they are worse than mediocre.
Imazia Hunt Lol now aint THAT the truth!
Ronald C Bullock i love you right now. preach on!!!!!!!!!!!!
Donna H Mofohari haha thanks..yea but whether it does any good or gets thru to anybody is another story :/
Imazia Hunt All good! I heard ya tho!
Donna H Mofohari :))
Dinerogang Jay I told this young kid keep writing cause he was super trash but i aint wanna kill his dreams....Everybody wanna be something they clearly are not!
Donna H Mofohari i hear what you say..some ppl follow a path for years putting heart and soul into it..some of them even have great skills..but despite a few ppl believing in them and supporting them they cant seem to move forward..why. bcs the industry is over congested with a tangle of unskilled and inept rappers..and it will only get worse..isnt it better to let them know now that they are not as great as they perceive themself, or point them in a direction where u CAN see their aptitude so they can do some good for themself? With the over congestion and tangled mass of would be rappers that is choking the industry, skilled artists and producers are giving up bcs they cannot be heard above the noise.
Dinerogang Jay Real Rap
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DISCUSSION ON THE DIFFICULTY OF GETTING SINGERS ON TRACKS:
* March 17, 2014 · I have noticed that rappers don't seem to have too much trouble getting other rappers to work on a track with them..but in the past decade i've only managed to get one rapper to sing with me and neverrrr a singer on a track with me..a few male singers have yea yea'd me and a few ladies have voiced interest but when u get to the point of putting a mic in their hand they mysteriously disappear..what's up with that singers..where's the passion? Let me rephrase that..i've sung with a girl in college on a track..it was a recording assignment..that doesn't count.
Martyn Binnie: i think most of the time when two singers connect on a track it's because they know each other and record with each other at the same place, as opposed to trying to collab via the internet..but even then, you don't see that too often.
Donna H Mofohari: exactly..the girl in college used to come over regular and i'd offer again and again since i had a setup..she was more interested in taking me out to the mall and and dressing me up or giving the hair stylist instructions on how she wanted my hair for the next performance..as far as recording..naaa..i couldn't get her to sit down long enough..there was another lady a couple years ago who kept saying she was travelling from another state to record with me..something always came up at the last minute...its really hard to find somebody with enough passion to follow thru..i hear u about online too..it just hasn't happened!
Martyn Binnie: lol @ she was more interested in taking me to the mall
Donna H Mofohari: haha its truuu
Frank Palmer: unfortunately artist nowadays are ego driven feeling like i dont want to get on a song with her. she might get the deal ive been working for smh on some jealous & Envy type shit... trust me especially on FB, ive tried to connect with a few artist on here & they dont even respond lol, & i bring a lot to the table. so either they're intimidated or ego tripping.
Donna H Mofohari: thats so sad tho..if ppl have a legitimate reason they should explain themself..i hate it when ppl don't bother to respond at all..and the ego ish is even worse :-{ some real beautifulness could be created if ppl would drop that barrier and let creative excitement take over :-{
Adam Martinez: Word i sang ona track wit u and i aint a singer cats need to step dey game up :)
Donna H Mofohari: yessir you are the only one ever! :D a couple somebodys have sang along a lil bit as adlibs and add ons which to me was dope as hell but as far as actually singing with me..u are the only one..and i was just having a singing session just now..that was one of the ones i was singing to :D *You did a great job and it's a beautiful song!
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ON RESPONSIBILITY:
* September 15, 2016 · Music is love but creating it comes with responsibility..like giving birth and raising a family.
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ON BALANCING ALL THE ELEMENTS OF BEING AN INDEPENDENT ARTIST:
* January 3, 2013 · Seems to me that independent artists never seem to get the balance right. You get some that promote 24/7 but never get any work done, and others who live in the studio but you never seem to see or hear any work out of them. Some you can't wake up for a collab, or respond to a collab request, or communicate with people they ARE theoretically collabing with. Guess it has a lot to do with having a balanced blend of time management, enthusiasm and common sense..but ppl dont seem to have it in themselves any more, or 'the will' to plan the process and use the powers of communication effectively. In fact I have found people run from the communication part! YES IT IS IMPORTANT! ..eh..Let me stick to the main point..for now. If you are an independent artist, it's better if you have a team you can trust to pass the baton around and cover more ground..as long as everybody knows what they're doing and on the same mission. If you don't have a team its even more important to have a PLAN and cover all the ground yourself..every step is equally as important..
* January 25, 2013 · Please remember that people may see your hands moving and acknowledge you because they see that you are working. It's awesome to have people walk into the shop and be impressed with the hard work, nodding at how you have it on display. But unless they are moved or inspired BEYOND that vague interest to take action, such as purchase or at least 'buy into' a product or service, pass the information on to their neighbor, friend, team, crew, passers by...etc..then the movement of your hands means nothing and you may as well have stayed in bed. Connecting dots DEPENDS on ppl seeing you, investigating further and being inspired enough to want to become a link in your chain..i.e their chain grows and so does yours. Until that happens and until people DO take the initiative to see what you are about, you could be a crackhead on the street corner selling rocks and get more attention. (Thank you for the 'distant respect' folks..trust it's appreciated...but..come on..)
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ON "THE MUSIC INDUSTRY":
* January 2, 2013 · I'm beginning to view the music biz as a bunch of rats in a big city..hey I'm part of it so I can see it for what it is. I CAN'T control the bad, greedy, fat or bloodthirsty rats, I CAN speak my mind but it really is just a faint squeak in the overall scheme of things. The fat rats won't hear because they have all the cash around 'em..They got the biggest sewer in the city. Music has it's own demons, protocols and politics..If the fat rats like ya, you're in..
* March 24, 2012 · The industry is built on greed, selfishness, ego centeredness, requires asshole skills par excellence and bullshit-ability..If you got none of the above..give up.
* August 28, 2011 · If you strip away all the peripheral bizheads who provide services in the music industry, and get right down to the core artists on this planet who have enough drive, passion, consistency and INTELLIGENCE to keep at it thru all the ups and downs in the game.....then it's not really such a big world after all.......think about it...
* June 27, 2016 · The Music Industry = A Hierarchical Musi-political Spaghetti Junction. Drive safely. Watch out for the dips, bumps, trick shots, sidewinders, backhanders, travelers, fouls, dead ends, don't step up to a cliff edge with a fan behind you and watch the wavs for ebbs n flows. Extremely money, ego and productivity/turnover oriented. There tends to be a clique bank (gotta be in it to win the "spin and win" jackpot). Watch out for those black balls..they can bowl you right out of the game. When you are loved, ripples spread far and wide.
Underground = Musi-religious, culture minded, single sighted, extremely competitive, fuck everybody else-ness, humble, passionate, creativity focused...did i miss anything ? #RamblingThoughtsOfAMadWomanOnCoffeeBreak
* February 9, 2012 · I learned in a short space of time that the music biz is full of liars, scammers, lazy ass mofos and bullshitters..It's all good..I'd rather know who and what I'm dealing with so I can learn to deal with every type that presents itself..Since the industry cannot be changed, we have to change our attitude and approach to it/them/those out there/whoever this applies to.. Since this is MY heart and MY world I can choose to suck it up or break under the mass-retardation within the "game"...I choose to not only "suck it up" but become wiser thru observation/experience.
* February 9, 2013 · #Thought of The Day:..Some people work their heart out for YEARS..They work with their talents, build their skills, reach out again and again to be heard and seen by the right people, make the right connections..But if it is not your time yet, or not meant for you for whatever reason, there is nothing in this world that is going to make you hit that spotlight no matter how bad you want it...Yet some random person gets filmed after a fire saying "aint nobody got time for dat"..and she is instantly an international superstar..Go figure..*shrugs..That's life!!! (Gotta love it.)
* January 21, 2016 · In the music industry you must walk the line between confidence, passion and self belief....and arrogance and over inflated ego. Be neither over or under humble. Maintain your respect for those who support you. Support your REAL supporters and recognize those who only use you as a source to get their own music/service out further. Pleaase believe..There IS a set of scales. Those who cross the line will get a hard lesson..not necessarily immediately because we all have a window of opportunity to correct ourselves. But I see how that pendulum swings. Watch yourself.
* May 6, 2015 · I was having a discussion last night and it was put to me that I have a tendency to let people hurt and disrespect me or mine again and again. After initially standing up in defense of my reasons for giving people too many chances, I sat down abruptly..Why? Because this person is right. That mirror was handed to me and I didn't want to see it. I give people chance after chance to prove their heart. I believe in people a little toooo much thinking they will eventually follow thru and that their word is bond. Add that to the fact that I genuinely want to see talented ppl get ahead ,and see "that" rather than "the rest" which is an important factor too!!!
In this hip hop culture of ours we naturally want to encourage each other, support and push forward the greatness. But the sad reality is that in life, but particularly in the music industry..people talk shit..habitually. If you give them a chance to prove themselves but they let you down more than once or twice..take it as fact that they have showed you who they are. That is all. Time for me to grow some balls (metaphorically speaking) and walk away from the bullshitters.
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ON ARTISTS AND RELATIONSHIPS:
* January 2, 2010 - The loneliest humans on the planet are often artists..why? Because we are all driven by creativity, passion, need..The possibility of finding another human who can tolerate, share, support that essence/core part of them that they cannot change seems beyond rare. Often the best we can hope for is to connect with other artists creatively, but still end up alone, trying to dumb down our buzz since after all, how many partners will appreciate or tolerate that kind of passion? Or we could date/fuck/have relationships with every willing body in sight, pretending that this fills the gap, but knowing they can't relate mentally and/or musically..Artists tell me if I'm wrong..I don't want to be right!!
* August 5, 2011 · I have said this before..Artists can be the loneliest people in the world relationship-wise..It seems near on impossible to find somebody willing/able to take you AND your passions on, support and appreciate all that goes with it.